Rebekah The Doula

Doula's heart, nurturing yours

Frequently Asked Questions

What is a birth doula?

A birth doula provides emotional and physical support, along with resources and birth preparation to an expecting family, during pregnancy, childbirth and soon after. We offer continuous encouragement, comfort measures and advocacy aiming to make for a positive birthing experience.

A doula will meet with you prenatally, offer support throughout your labor and birth, and is there for you as you transition into your postpartum chapter. Some things that are included in doula work: prenatal visits, telephone/email support, on-call availability, continuity of care, assistance and support during labor and birth, massage, taking photos on a provided device. Aswell as breastfeeding support and offering resources to help as you transition into post-partum.

What’s the difference between a doula and a midwife?

A midwife is a trained medical professional who monitors the health of mother and baby, provides clinical care, and ensures safety throughout pregnancy, birth, and postpartum.

A doula is a non-medical support person who offers emotional reassurance, comfort measures, and practical guidance. While a midwife focuses on medical care, a doula focuses on your overall experience—helping you feel supported, informed, and confident.

Together, they complement each other beautifully: your midwife looks after the medical side, and your doula is there to nurture, encourage, and stand beside you every step of the way.

Birth doulas can attend various types of births, including hospital births, home births, and birthing center deliveries. They adapt to different birthing environments and work alongside healthcare professionals, supporting individuals and their partners during labor and childbirth. This kind of support can help any birth to be a positive and empowering expierence.

A lot of people imagine doulas supporting home births or think doulas are only for the “crunchy” families. While that may be a stereotype for doulas, a large majority of doulas can be found in hospitals and birth centers. Doulas support any and all birth, from midwife-supported home births to birth center births to unmedicated hospital births to scheduled cesarean births.

This totally depends on you. Typically its nice to reach out and contact doulas as early as the first trimester to find out avalibility of the doula and if the doula is the right fit for you and your family.

However, this isn’t always a possibility, and reaching out even as late as the third trimester is still perfectly fine.

A commmon question doulas get is, “Will my partner feel left out?” or “Does the doula take the role of my partner?”

Many think that a doula takes the role of the partner when, in fact, our role supports them as well. We firmly believe that our role as your doula is to amplify support, and that goes for your partner too. Your partner knows you better than anyone else. Even if they aren’t sure how to support you in labor/birth, they know your fears, preferences and desires.

We work with your partner by encouraging them, offering guidance and suggestions when needed, reminding them to also stay hydrated and to take bathroom breaks, and more. Your partner deserves to be supported during this time to. It is our goal to make them feel envolved and comfortable.

Absolutely. A doula can be valuable regardless of whether you choose medication during labor or if you have a cesarean section.

While doulas provide emotional support, comfort measures, and advocacy, they can also assist in navigating medical interventions and procedures. For medicated births, a doula can offer guidance on coping techniques and help you understand the process.

In the case of a cesarean, a doula can provide emotional support, explain the procedure, and assist with aspects like initial bonding and breastfeeding. Their role is versatile and aims to enhance your overall birth experience, adapting to your preferences and the evolving circumstances of labor.